The dress code for our wedding is black tie. Ladies should wear floor-length gowns or elegant pantsuits, and the gentlemen should wear tuxedos.

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It might get a little chilly! In Tarrytown, New York, in October, the average high-temperature is 64.9°F (18.3°C), and the average low-temperature is 44.1°F (6.7°C).

The ceremony and reception will both take place at Tarrytown House Estate at 49 East Sunnyside Lane, Tarrytown, New York 10591.

The ceremony will take place outside at the Sculpture Garden, weather permitting. The reception will be indoors in the Mary Duke Ballroom.

After the ceremony, please head to the West Terrace to enjoy the cocktail hour.

We recommend that you arrive 30 minutes before the start of the ceremony to make sure everyone is on time and we can get the party started as scheduled!

There will be a complimentary valet service. If you’d prefer to park yourself, there will be space available, and staff on-site to point you in the right direction.

While we love your little ones, our wedding is going to be an adults-only event so that everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kids at home so you can celebrate with us.

We have a strict guest list to stay on budget. Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only able to accommodate those listed on your invitation.

The RSVP deadline is Friday, September 2, 2022. Please RSVP by sending back the pre-addressed RSVP card in your invitation or RSVP by using the online form.

Yes, there will be a vegetarian course option upon request. Please let us know when you RSVP if you have any dietary restrictions and we will do our best to accommodate.

Yes, we encourage guests to post pictures on to their social media channels, our only request is that you tag each photo with our wedding hashtag #OnceUponAstolfi so we can keep track of all of your pictures!

Reach out to us by emailing us@michelleandmichael.love